Flip the Script
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Flip the Script

How to use persuasion when negotiating

In his book, Flip The Script, Oren Klaff teaches the reader a series of techniques to help plant ideas in other people’s minds, and to make them believe that those ideas were their own, without realising that they are negotiating with a very talented salesperson. He recounts situations from his vast experience to explain how the techniques described in the book can be put into practice, and how they can be tweaked to make sure that each and every one of your negotiations ends with a positive result. 

Flip the Script
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The aim is to plant your idea into another person’s mind and make them fall in love with it, thanks to a phenomenon known as Induction

Nobody likes to have someone breathing down their necks, trying to convince them to buy something: the idea of “flipping the script” is precisely what drives sellers not to push potential buyers, but to leave them the space to realise for themselves that you are selling something, so that they believe, trust, and fall in love with it. Closing a sale without being pushy, without making potential buyers feel backed into a corner, is not a magic trick or a superpower, but a gradual process, available to anyone who knows the basic rules and is willing to apply them.

The author’s aim, when he worked in sales, was for the customer to decide to buy, without him even having to ask them to. The most advanced research in neuroscience and behavioural economics has come up with a phenomenon known as induction, through which someone can literally transplant an idea into another person’s subconscious and convince them that the idea was theirs to begin with.

Anyone who has ever worked in sales knows how this works: the more you push people in a certain direction, the more defensive and confused potential buyers tend to get. Customers must be allowed to buy however they want to, and they should be the ones to tell the seller what they want to buy (which, if the seller is good, will be exactly what he was aiming to sell).

The “old script” works to try and overcome the resistance of the human brain to the information that comes from the outside world by exploiting those innate survival instincts that tend to kick in when someone does not have time to think.

In the past, the amount of information sellers provided, and the pressure they used, were an inevitable part of the selling experience, but nowadays, everything is available online, and you don’t have to endure the more annoying part of this process that you have come to hate so much, (such as the excessive fussing of sellers).

In today’s market, Induction is therefore a more necessary practice than ever, if you are to bring home the sales that you are hoping for, rather like the 2010 film, Inception, by Christopher Nolan.

Creating ideas for other people is not as impossible as it might seem, and it happens every day, from the highest levels of business and politics to the crime series many of us watch on tv. It is no coincidence when the viewer believes that they have solved the case before the detective does: the screenwriter created that story to make the viewers feel proud of themselves for being the first to solve the mystery.

If people are convinced that an idea is their own, they tend to attribute more value to it, they believe in it more and, if it involves doing something, they will do it much faster than it takes to carry out someone else’s idea.

Researchers who are studying induction have found that the moment on which the induction point hinges, does not follow a gradual crescendo, but comes suddenly, like a bolt out of the blue.


The key ideas of "Flip the Script "

The aim is to plant your idea into another person’s mind and make them fall in love with it, thanks to a phenomenon known as Induction
To influence someone’s choices you must put yourself on their level and have a natural ability to create certainty
Information passes from the outside world to the human brain through innate receptors common to us all
The novelty chunk: the fascination of novelty can help you close a deal, but don’t overdo it
The right balance between independence and pessimism is necessary to make the potential buyer believe they are in control of the decisional process
When salespeople give a business presentation, they run the risk of becoming one of the five worst archetypes to close a sale
Flipping the script is the result of several steps that allow the seller to plant ideas into the minds of potential buyers
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